My elderly neighbor lost her cat - often her only company for days. What can I say to her? Should her cat be replaced?

When older folks live with companion animals, they often share a powerful bond. That’s why a senior friend or relative may need a lot of emotional support after a dearly-loved pet dies. You can help by encouraging them to talk about the animal and what it meant to them. Let them grieve openly.

You may also wonder whether it’s a good idea to replace the pet. Jane Shaw, Director of the Argus Institute at Colorado State University, says some people want a new pet fairly quickly, to re-establish an important routine.

Shaw says, “for others, they’re going to need a period of time to adjust.”

So ask your relative what’s best. And if he or she needs more support than you and other friends can offer, suggest a grief counselor or a pet-loss support hotline.

– Dr. Andrea Looney, DVM for the “Purina® Animal Instincts” Podcast Series

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